A question for lesbians about your first time? Were you nervous about being naked with another girl for the first time in your life? Once you were both naked and embraced did you feel hopelessly bonded, just like you were an utterly innocent pure guy, crying uncontrollably in each others arms consumed by the new found innocent beauty and wonder? Is the first time lesbian mating the most beautiful experience that girls can ever have? I just really feel it that way. |
The experience is different for everyone, but in general if you are a lesbian and you are about to have your first sexual experience with another woman, then it is only natural that you are going to feel shy and self-conscious about the whole affair. It is completely okay to feel nervous, to not be sure what to do next, and especially it is completely alright and natural to feel nervous and unsure once you are naked with another girl for the first time, but just taking it slow and not trying to just rush through everything will lead you to a much more rewarding experience.
It is no different than a girl’s first time having sex with a boy or a boy being naked for the first time in front of a girl he’s about to have intercourse with. First times are not only special; they can be scary and rightly so. Take your time, don’t be in a rush to do something and open communication with your partner will see you through every time and the future shall take care of itself.
A person’s sexuality is a very private and special concept. It is not something you want to be pressured into doing or performing, and it is certainly not something you want to compromise for someone else, but something you need to be honest and true to in being who you are. And if you can do this, then that first embrace no matter if it is two girls, two males, or a complete hetero-sexual relationship; it really doesn’t matter, because it is all beautiful and wonderful, and the most thrilling experience you can ever have that very first time, and it is something to be treasured no-matter who you are.
Hope this helps… |
First time lesbians should they just kiss? Females that used to be straight or females exploring thier bi-side how can they ease into being lesbians?...when two girls meet that had never been with women before how should they even approach sex since neither have experience? |
| Kiss her and caress her her hand, her hips, her thigh, and then unbutton. I usually unbutton the pants first just to be a tease and then do the top but some people prefer to work their way down. It's up to you. |
First time lesbian sex, I want it to be special? So my girlfriend and i have been together for two months now, we've been best friends for 5 years and we do love each other so much. We are both total virgins. I'm not entirely sure wat to do so in need of advice from some more experienced lesbians please. We have kissed and touched each other before and spooned but nothing morr than that. I really want it to be special. We spend a lot of time together we sleep at each others houses all weekend every weekend. So just some tips to make it special thanx :) |
First of all, I think what will make it even more special will be the date before your night-in. Take her out to a fancy restaurant, and maybe dress up. I can also suggest wearing some long sexy gloves, both of you, which will come in handy later (pardon the pun). Then you can have a nightcap with candles, champaign, and flowers.
As for the actually act... Go slow, kiss passionately, and... well I can't really explain it here. If you want more info from me, send me a message.
Have a wonderful night. |
Good couple song for first time lesbians couple.? After having feelings for my friends and finding out that we were both bi we started to go out. she likes pop hip-hop music, and i like acoustic music... im looking for a song for us. we are going out secretly, and we want some lyrics to say to each other in public for i love you without anyone else understanding. |
make it last for ever by keith sweat
unconditional love by hi five |
Is a lesbians first time more enjoyable than a straight girls first time? Well I was just curious since all of people say that its going to hurt the first few times for a straight girl but for a lesbians there is really no penetration in the sense that something is going to tear open(hymen).
So what do you think??
MP: how do you like your girls or guys thin and skinny, curvy and voluptuous, or do you like the more to love??
To me it doesn't really matter as long as there not so skinny that if they turn side ways they might disappear lol |
There's no penetration in the sense that it will tear the hymen?
I'm sorry, but what? There are plenty of lesbians who penetrate one another . . .
MP: All three, just so long as they're not morbidly obese (like 400+ pounds) or I can see their ribs. I also tend to prefer smaller breasts all around.
EDIT: Contrary to popular belief, the hymen is actually at the opening of the vagina, not buried deep inside. |
How can I make her feel comfortable (first time lesbian experience)? One of my guy friends (we're sexually involved only) is flying his ex-girlfriend down in the next few weeks and would like for us to have a 3some. She's never been with a girl before , so what are some ways he and especially I can make her feel more comfortable with the idea and ease her into it? He asked me to text her today and introduce myself- so any tips for our 'textversations' would be useful also. Thanks! |
| i guess just be really honest and genuine with her. its awkward and whether or not you say it, you both know it. hopefully he told her about it... i mean you can't MAKE her want to do it, but if you act like its no big deal and get her excited about it i'm sure she'll be more comfortable with it. you should probably try just getting to know her first and then "ease" her into the converstation. sounds fun though! |
Do you agree with these steps for a first time lesbian? First. Find an attractive female.
Second. Making flirtatious actions
Third. Locate to a private place
fourth. Play lesbian action movies
fith. Strip her down slowly with kisses and dirty words
6th. Lick her until she turns white. |
Dude, are you gay or something. You spend so much time in the lgbt section here as yahoo answers. One day your saying that being gay is a sin and now you wanna know what lesbians do. And your description of what happens is so shallow. Just like being straight, being gay isn't just being infatuated by the same gender and just wanting sex. Its called love. Something all humans are capable of
Honestly, what is your intent here? You complain in your previous question about us forcing acceptance and our views yet you come here to yahoo answers, to the lgbt section solely to enforce your views and judgment on others. Don't you think thats a bit contradicting? Stop wasting your time here and the time of others with pointless questions. If you haven't realised not many people like or agree with your opinion, let alone care.... |
First time lesbian sex tonight with a good friend? My good friend invited me over for tonight to have some fun. I agreed because I'm curious about having sex with another girl, but, I'm not sure what to do!!!! Anyone have any tips to make this a remarkable experience? |
If you're curious you should go for it..
My first time was with a girl i'd been friends with but attracted to for years.. eventually i confessed to her. I never got to 'date' her, but we had several fun sleep overs..
Its really a great experience that you shouldn't miss out on, especially with someone you feel comfortable with. |
Lesbians-your first time doing "it"? i really only want answers from lesbians who had there first ever time with someone that was a women,(but ill take all answers) im jus curious did u bleed, did she bust ur hymen, also what did she use on you (her fingers,toys, etc.) i dont wanna sound gross lol but im a virgin lesbian and im a little scared, i dont even wanna go to the gyno lol, also how did it feel (any pain) |
| Honey with another woman unless you use a toy or she tries for your G spot, you won't bleed. Pain? I didn't have any and I was 14. I think my hymen must have broken long before. The kind of guy who used toys at about 9. We were in a phone booth during a blizzard, I didn't even feel the cold and we were naked. |
First time for lesbians? I'm lezbain and datin a great girl but we r gonna have our first time I'm nervous what do I do? |
| You don't know what to do? Weren't you paying attention in sex ed? |