Do gay men use dildos while masturbating to attain greater sexual pleasure? There is an argument amongst my fellow friends as to whether or not this statement is true. If you are gay please respond, I am genuinely interested. |
| It is something which some men do - it is called "G-Spot" stimulation a massaging of the prostate gland can also induce seminal fluid to leak from the penis without an erection. P&P :-) |
If men use dildos does that mean theyre gay? ok , so i was cleaning my grampas room up for him and i took some of his clothes out to fold them , coz they looked messy so i took them out and at the bottom of his drawer was 7 dildos and lube , i was shocked hes like 80 ..and i guess he probably uses them ,.. him and my grandma have been separated for 14 years now ,, and does this make him gay if he uses them ? |
| No, hes about as straight as a rainbow. |
Can straight or gay men use dildos? I was Just wondering if men use dildos? |
up the bum any day of the week.
now in place of their unit? that means it has to be the some type of hollow one. |
My boyfriend loves dildos?!?! is he gay? One day, he suddenly started acting like a little sluteey b"tch and asked me to use my dildo on him, I was shocked at first but then i Did use it on him, He Visibly Enjoyed it, He really loved it. He keeps talking about how nice it feels and how he loves it. He says he loves it when I do it to him. He is physically quite weak, (I could kick his *** too), he's small and quite thin.
I asked him if he's gay but he said that he's not. He also wants me to dress him up like a girl too. He keeps talking about make up and dresses. He acts like a little Sl@t without a boyfriend. It wouldn't surprise me if he is. he's always Jumping around like he wants a boyfriend. He says he loves me very much but he does seem disinterested in women sometimes.
one day he said that Victoria's secret fashion show 'sucks' and that he doesn't find it 'hot', but refuses to being gay and says that he loves me very much.
It's like he wants girls to use a dildos on him. I don't think he wants men to do it. He also adds that he wants me to do it "hard". he makes girly sounds and he loves being submissive.
I'm fine with the Dildo, (I must admit it does turn me on too!) I don't really care if he's gay but i just want to know if he is. I might actually buy a new strap-on for him, I know that it'd make him happy.
Is there any way i can confirm if he's gay?. |
| I think that is so sexy!! Once a man tries a dildo, you don't give it up, and eventually want the real thing, so yes he maybe gay, and its all cool. Why not try to get another bi guy involved? your Bf and you can wear matching lingerie haha. If it turns you on, go for it. |
How can I get my partners to stop using dildos? i noticed that most of my partners prefer dildos. If Im gay then I dont like penis.. I dont get it. Plus a womens orgasm comes from the outside of her vagina not the inside. |
First off, women can totally have internal orgasms. I'm sure you've heard of the G-Spot, right? Women can have anal orgasms as well. Orgasms can occur from any sort of stimulation, not just clitoral.
That being the case, there are plenty of tools that a woman can use to achieve an internal orgasm. Yes, many of these are phallic in nature (penis-shaped dildos), but they aren't all that way.
You're a lesbian so you don't like men. That's fine. You don't like penis either. That's also fine. There are some feminist lesbians who will reject anything related to men and include the very idea of using any sort of tool that resembles a penis in any way. That's great, though I'd say a little misguided.
And even if that's how you feel, that doesn't mean your partners feel the same way. They don't have to like men or penises to want to explore and enjoy their sexuality. Maybe they get more pleasure out of an internal orgasm and that's why they enjoy using a dildo. Maybe they like the feel of being f*cked even if they don't want to be with a man. Maybe they were with men before they became women and they just don't know any other way. Whatever the reason, you can't assume that just because you don't like something or feel it's wrong, that they should or do feel the same way.
Take some time to discuss it with them. Let them know how you feel and ask them how they feel. Personally, I'm of the opinion that everyone should take time to explore their own sexuality and find out what they like and dislike before saying that something is wrong. To put down the idea of using a dildo because it resembles a penis without even trying it is, to me, about a closeminded as a straight man who refuses to explore facets of his own sexuality out of fear of being considered gay.
Take some time to think about it, talk about it with your partners, and maybe try things out before you condemn them. It's your body and your sexuality. Have fun. Explore! |
Does having butt plugs/dildos make me gay? Does having them make you gay? I don't like thinking about guys and masturbate off to women all the time. Seriously. I have a ********* and a dildo secretly stashed in my house because of the fear that my parents might think I'm gay(which I know I'm not). I never told any of my friends I had one either. Its just that it feels so good when its up there, like 100x better than regular male orgasm. Everybody I knows think any guys with these toys are instantly gay. But I believe that I'm totally not gay.
Does it make a man gay if he has them? |
Probably not. My best friend is gay, and yes he has them...but to me it doesn't mean anything. One of my ex bf has them too. He's not gay, obviously, but I find it kinda strange.
Look, if you know your not gay, than your not. If you wanna keep them, go right ahead. It's all up to you.
I hope I helped :) |
What will be the outcome of the next global tragedy of pink dildos being outlawed in China? Chinese women and gay men deserve pink dildos...what a tragedy... |
| Overpopulation would dramatically increase and China would plummet into a depression, or they would just use another color. |
My fiance posted a picture of him playing with dildos w/ a disgusting bio on a gay/porn website, is he gay? His bio states he enjoys gang-bangs, men who can relax and be themselves, has a house in the country for occasional entertainment and a life his son will never know. This man denys he gay. If he's not, why did he place a picture of himself with a dildo in his rear, wearing chaps on a gay/porn website for everyone to see? He also has a swing w/ stirrups for legs he puts up in house occassionally, a collection of dildos and other sex toys. If he's not gay, what is he? |
| you already know the answer and you are in denial right now. he is what I'd call Bi but maybe he's gay and using you to help him hide it. he's going to keep denying it so it's up to you to do what you have to do. Get rid of him. |